He say, She say ….blah, blah, blah
By Dina. Filed in Relationships |
I have often heard men remark or complain that the first thing on a woman’s mind when meeting her for the first time is marriage. They say, “I have not even had a chance to know her and she is already thinking about marriage.” Then I also hear women complaining that all men think about is sex. They do not care if they know you or not, they do not want to marry they just want sex.
What’s really happening is both genders are responding according to their genetic make up. Men are more sexually and visually wired and women are more emotionally and family oriented. It’s just the opposite side of the same coin.
Personally, I think both genders need to slow down and take a chill pill and get to know one another before marriage or intercourse. Though both views are hasty, at least the female’s desire to marry is biblical and is what God himself requires. While the male tendency to have sex without marriage is fornication and completely outside of the will of God.
We need to recognize how God has designed male and female, seek understanding and act accordingly instead of complaining and putting one another down. What are your thoughts?
